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Friday, November 05, 2010

Review of West Denver Dentist & Dr. Mike Unser - Going to the Dentist is not that bad!

Dr. Mike Unser of West Denver Dentistry was referred to me by a friend more than a year ago and I have to say, he is the best dentist I have EVER had.  I have had dentists in the military and since then, I have been shopping around for dentists because it seems I always met quacks.  There was one near my house (can't defame them) but horrible!  Same thing with this other lady I tried in Lakewood--- she was horrible and their billing practices literally made my stomach turn. 

Dr. Baumgartner and Unser of West Denver Dentist are on the corner of Wadsworth and 20th and I have to say, not only are their hygienists knowledgeable and well-trained, the entire office atmosphere is amazing.  You are welcome from the beginning, billing issues are handled by Darcy and she is fabulous!  I have to say, in my years of experience with dentists in the military and outside of it, this is the best dental office I have encountered.  I would recommend them in a heartbeat! 

They also see kids and put them at ease.  Dr. Unser is a proud dad and makes all patients feel welcome.  Show them this and print out the below coupon, and tell them that Clueless in Colorado sent you to get a $20 credit as well.   You won't regret it!  



Going to the dentist does not have to be all bad.... sure, some of it is bad- the drilling, the vibration of the drill, etc., but if you have a dentist that warrants his work and stands behind it with confidence, it sure does make it a whole heck of a lot easier!

Thursday, November 04, 2010

NAME GAME- Re-name my Blog!

Okay, the buzz has been created, and you have all patiently waited for ..... The NAME GAME!   Well, the wait is over.  Here is your opportunity to help me re-name my Blog and re-create my blog image.

I need your help!  Please email to me your name ideas for my blog.  To get you started, for example, here is one I thought of but not sure I like it, "Going Vogue" (a block about a working mom, her life and experiences and consumer reviews).  Get it ... Vogue instead of Rogue- ahhh - ya see why I need your ideas.  I got nothing!

Send me your ideas between now and November 19 and if your suggestion is picked, you get a 
$10.00 Starbucks Card!   Please email me your name and your suggestion to:  ratnajag@gmail.com
If your suggestion is the winner (and I will hold a vote-off of the top 3), then you get the giftcard.   I'll need your address only if you are the winner so no need to send that just yet.

Thanks for helping me re-name my blog and give it a fresh jumpstart!

P.S. --- Have a great New Year too!

Tuesday, November 02, 2010

Noodles & Company Review - small portions, expensive price

trademarked logo of Noodles & Co.
In a pinch tonight, we decided to pick up food at Noodles & Company.  We realized why, despite its proximity to our home, we do not eat there more often.  Compared to other places like Tokyo Joe's, Chopstix, and Olive Garden, Noodles is quite expensive for what you get- NOT MUCH.

I felt like I was back in France with portions and the hefty Euro price tag to boot!  For example, a kids bowl of buttered noodles was $3.75.  The size was small!   No bread accompanies the dish either.  My husband wanted a penne pasta and wanted to add chicken.  Chicken, Tofu, and any add-on is $2.25 extra added to the $5.25 base price- WHAT?!   That would have been almost $8.00 plus tax.  Then you think well, maybe the portions will be enough to last a couple of days.  But they are not.  For $7.50, you can do a Trio which includes your base dish (SMALL) Plus an add-on like chicken and a side salad or soup.  I told my husband I'd eat his side salad.  This salad was the size of my fist!   I kid you not.  I had to come home and eat another meal.  I'm still hungry and I'm a pretty small person.  Wow!  I remember getting a salad last week for an office luncheon at Abrusci's that lasted me two days - it was $5.95. 

I promised I'd blog about consumer issues including a bad value when I see one so here you go.  Noodles & Company is also one of the few companies that you don't always see coupons on like Qdoba or other fast food.  It was a disappointing experience but you have positive ones please do share- would love to hear from you!  

Monday, November 01, 2010

A New Year, a New Look For Clueless in Colorado - HAPPY DIWALI TO YOU ALL!

This week marks another fun-filled week of Diwali- the Indian celebration called festival of lights, it signifies an important change in seasons for Hindus and a celebration of the return of Lord Ram (reference: Ramayan) after defeating Ravana (evil).   It's traditionally a 5-day festival and a great time to gather with family, friends, and celebrate. 

In honor of Diwali, I wish you all a very Happy Diwali 2010, and have decided to not just take on a new look for Clueless In Colorado, but also solicit ideas for a new blog name.  Alas, 'tis true, I am moving on with the move.  With change comes the revelation that it may be time for a new blog name as well.  I started with the name CLUELESS IN COLORADO in 2004 when I first moved to Colorado, and really was clueless, learning a lot and trying to find my way and direction in life.   More information to follow in the next posting.  Winning name will win a $10 Starbucks card.   In the meantime... please review my blog and if you have ideas, feel free to email me instead of posting it in a comment:  ratnajag@gmail.com

Looking forward to all your name suggestions for a new, improved BLOG!

All Hallow's Eve 2010, Review- Meltdowns, Candy, Costumes, and Boorito 2010

Office Party - Clowns, Tears, and more Tears!
So my office had its yearly Halloween party for kids.  Of course, my little one was having a meltdown.  All she wanted to do was eat all the candy.  She did not want to go office to office to trick or treat.  Maybe I should have done more to prepare her.  But, both kids were just so excited to see baskets of candy and goodies lined up in the hallway they could hardly contain themselves or bring themselves to eat -- anything but candy, that is!  My little one was melting down at every juncture- there was the candy incident (this happened three or four times), the cantaloupe incident and the tomato incident.  All of them were quite unnerving for me because at the time they occurred, I felt like all eyes were on me even though other kids were there.  Of course, when one kid cries, it seems all the others stop and stare and start behaving.  Mine was the one crying.  :(

The clown outfit - bad idea.  Bad!  Great in theory, not in execution.  The giant clown tie lasted longer than the rainbow colored wigs.  On my 20-month old, the wig would not stay on more than a split second.  My 3 year old kept hers on for about 10 minutes before she said it irritated her head.  So, for most of the party, my kids looked like they were just wearing pajamas with polka dots and flowers on them.  Nice!  The clown car (the prop extraordinaire) is the only thing that lasted.  You can see it in the picture.  When they get older, maybe separate pieces work but not when they're under the age of 5.  My costume was the best of all because I am convinced now that I am in the wrong profession- for the comfort of the clothes alone, I should be a doctor.  Ha!  The long hours are not good nor the holding your hand still so you don't cut the wrong piece out, but hey, the scrubs are quite comfortable.  Being an ordinary doctor is always fun but being Dr. Sanjay Gupta was a blast! 

The School Costume Parade & Halloween parties
We had a blast with the girls' school costume parade and parties.  The girls dressed up nicely at their school and pre-made, easy to put on costumes were the trick.  The Ladybug and the Pilot did quite well in their school parties and all the kids were so adorable.  Cute Fest 2010 was fun for us and we videotaped the entire thing.  I have to say, that as a parent, I do not get to attend too many things at my daughter's school and going to these things helps us meet the other parents and see how our kids are doing in their respective classrooms.  I'm a big proponent of being involved in my child's life and a big part of that is being involved in their schools.  I hope I can do that when they start grade school and beyond.

Boorito at Chipotle 2010 and Halloween Night- Simply fun!
We ditched the clown costumes and the girls kept their same outfits from their school parade for Halloween night.  It worked out great!  Of course, it's a family tradition to do Boorito at Chipotle and this year was no different.  Okay, well, a little different.  This year's theme was to dress up as processed food and the Burritos were $2 with proceeds going to some Food Revolution.  That's fine.  I'm okay donating money but the fun part is always seeing the other costumes and having people see yours.  This year, we walked in, there was no line around the block, and we ordered and left.  There were not that many in costume in the restaurant.  It was odd and a bit disappointing but as a family we had a blast nonetheless.  The girls were chicken nuggets.  One was dipped in honey mustard, the other in ketchup, and my husband made a fries cape.  It was adorable.  I used my costume from last year and went as a swirly milkshake.  I wanted to eat my husband's cape and drink myself. Yum! 

In any case, Halloween ended, delivering a little more stress than anticipated especially on the costumes front.  Finally, we can all use November to de-stress, get some exercise, and lose weight.... until.... of course, Thanksgiving!  Oy!

The new face of mommies in America

I've been very curious about this new phenomena in America- having kids after 30.  While I look around at my friends who have kids and are my age, some of them are almost done with their parental duties.  I see 37-year old moms like myself who have 13 and 14 year olds.  They are almost done!  Me, though, I am just starting out.  I wanted to find out whether I was the rule or the anomaly.  Did I wait too long to have kids or are more and more new mommies in America over 30?

I had to do some research and found that since 1990, the face of new mommies in America has shifted.  For example mothers in 2008 were more educated and older than those mommies two decades ago. (1)  More and more women are considering these days in vitro and other fertility options, and not necessarily with partners  - women are adopting and having babies without marriage or a partner.  Also, homosexual partners are deciding to adopt or have children as well.  This significantly changes the face of the American mom or dad.  I do not think any of these changes are a bad thing, I am simply amazed that two decades can make that big of a difference!

Two decades ago, women over 35 were less likely to have a child than a teenager, but now that has shifted.  In 2010, more and more babies are born to women over the age of 35 and less and less to teenagers.  This may be a result of better education on issues like birth control, abstinence, and sex ed. in schools and at home.  Moreover, as a result of better education, and better birth control, it seems that even women in their 20s and early 30s are waiting longer and longer to have kids.

Of course, it is also a sign of the times.  As we evolve as a people, with advanced medicine, advances in technology, it is no wonder that we are becoming more selfish as a society too.  There are so many constraints on our time with TV, media, technology, and social constraints that more and more women are waiting until they are done with school, established in their careers, and frankly, just have a better handle on their lives, especially balance in their lives, to have kids. More and more couples are also choosing the path of no children but decide to have pets instead.  After all, there is just too much to do, let alone raise children and feed more mouths.  This is a decision I also celebrate because it is important for everyone to make the right choice for their lives and lifestyles.

I got these statistics from this article at http://www.livescience.com/health/american-moms-older-more-educated-100506.html. 

•The percentage of teen moms and moms over 35 has just about flipped. In 1990, 13 percent of births were to teens while 9 percent were to women over 35. In 2008, the percentages were 10 percent to teens and 14 percent to women over 35.


•The percentage of single moms grew from 28 percent in 1990 to a record 41 percent in 2008.

•More than half of moms, 54 percent, had at least some college-level education in 2006, up from 41 percent in 1990.

•Birth rates for women aged 35 to 39 increased by 47 percent, and rates for women aged 40 to 44 increased by 80 percent over the time period.

•The overall number of babies born has remained relatively stable, rising from 4.2 million in 1990 to 4.3 million in 2008. The country saw a dip in the total number of births coinciding with the recent recession.

Of course, these statistics are interesting to me.  Even among my friends, I am one of the few that is married and has kids.  Then, among the people I have met in my groups like Bunco, Mile High Mammas, I may be slightly behind the power curve but not by much.  It just depends on which group I am with.  In my professional life and among my best friends, it seems that everyone had kids later in life or are still waiting, and among other groups especially mommy-type groups, I am the anomaly (i.e. had kids too late).  So, again, there is no right age or wrong age but I just know I am exhausted.  I cannot imagine having a kid in my 40s or 50s but women are doing it more and more and doing it just fine!   I say whatever choice you make, just stand by it and be okay with where you are because the new face of Mommies in America is not the same as it was for your parents' generation or their parents and it is changing very rapidly- who knows what the new face will be in another decade!